I like Girls that like Boys that like furs

FUR COATS...

Fallen in love with my silver fox gillet !

Check out my homie Marcus Swagga Dons fur range...

Our feature in .... magazine out soon !!!

Will make sure your up to date!!!

lulu trend .. over n out

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......FOCUS

external entities can veer us off our paths,
distract us from what out focus is...


FUCK DIGRESSING. 
Focus on your values - But do we know what they truly are?
Are we clouded by  the conversations and information we receive from listening to our friends and associates, media and external entities... 
I am guilty of placing value on material things......clothes shoes, handbags, 
We judge people by what they wear, the coat on their back, the handbags on their shoulders... 
Do you place value on people who wear the latest louis v's, on-trend most expensive loubutins?
Do our eyes turn green or do we idolise that person due to what they have on their feet and aspire to own a pair...
I admit - wearing my fur, my gucci handbag ... and on trend garments causes a slightly bouncier spring in my step 


Why 


I would never been seen dead walking down the street or into a west end promotion in a Primark dress let alone out of my house with a pair of primark shoes on my feet!!!


Does it makes you shallow and mundane?
NO 
People argue with me on this issue regularly. 


It makes you a DOUCHEBAG LOOSSEERRR if all the pennies you own whether you are in a £20k job or £45k a year job ... are worn on your back.  


Live within your means.  These items unless they are classic pieces are not an investment - they are passing trends. 
Having worked in designer retail and being fashion fwd I LOVE labels, brands and truly desire nice things but as I get older the more my eyes open to the act that a lot of people around me are shallow ... and weak ... Placing themselves on a higher level because of the garments they have on their backs
Road men and shottas ... wearing your money on your back = PAUPERS
What is really of value to you ?
Listening to my friends, observing activity on networking sites ... has an effect on our day to day lives.  


think about why the richest people dress like scruff pots !!! 


think about what REALLY MATTERS


FOCUS ON YOU ... 

2010...

reflection mode 

Je m'ennuie de mon ex

Je veux rencontrer quelqu'un étonnant

quelqu'un que je clique avec

Tout à l'heure

ce qui sera sera

f r u s t r a t e d

GOTTODROPITOUT
But deleting from BB/FB... BLOCKING THE LOT .... What if temptation sets in and curiosity!!! GRRR...

if it keeps hanging around

metfellinlove(youthink)emotionallydetachedyourselffrom'it'andthenitmakesanaffort'dontchangethewayyouare...changewhoyourwith'

developing the emotionless state of your mother!
am realising that feeling emotion whether it be good euphoric emotion or down and dispair - Emotions are Fab
They keep us in touch with our soul i believe - Or does it just mean we Have still GOT  a soul.

Have with Pride - been through a few things in my life - which have chipped away but am Glad to say I have still got a soul

Have realised today that one has to ensure that we take time OUT to reflect on events in our lives...

Just got to master the art of not flying off the handle !!!

Over n out !!!

One day

DO NOT DO ANYTHING YOU CANT SIGN YOUR NAME TO ...................

Blog of the day 5.10.2010 

not a shoulda woulda coulda thing

How do we know what is the right thing to do.

Do we follow our hearts or our heads.

As a women I have followed my heart and it feel like ive made some wrong decisions. Take this blogging thing as a moment in time out pour - yes its my business and yes its my page.
Someone who once was 'that guy' to who soon became the ex to someone who knew I was with someone else, then decided he wanted me back more that ever - showered me with gifts, gucci, roses, phone calls and such like. Why did it have to take someone else to make u realise you wanted me.
Did you want to prove something to yourself in the way of - 'I can get her back'. Just to prove a point to himself? Was it all a game? This lead to me becoming sooo confused and had an effect on my emotional stableness and effected what I was already in - which is a shame really as he was lloovveellyyy..

Realness is hard to decifer these days, from relationships in all forms. From friends, to colleagues, men, women in every capacity. Why have things got like this? Everyone seems to have an ulterior motive. Wether it be men wooing a female into a sense of 'he really does like me' which translate I want to fuck her a few times until I find someone else who takes my fancy. To that get over get under situation but because we arent aware of the situation we arent even able to comprehend we are actually that get over get under. That isnt a situation ive been in recently but in the grand scheme of things I understand people don't lay their cards on the table all at once. But realness and sincerity seems like such a thing of the past its unreal.
With regards to matters of the heart - i guess im over guarded, insecure however - it may seem weak but on reflection I should of left him a long time ago, i was insecure because i didnt feel secure. Note to self for the future. .. I should have gathered my thoughts alone and reviewed the situation. Its only now I can see things for what they really are. Mad at myself for keeping you around ... FUCK YES.... Glad im shot of you Y.E.S.... I have things to do ... Not time to worry or ponder over shoulda woulda coulda... The guard is half up .. i dont want to end up a mean hard back women who has no emotions. Erghh

Dec 2009

Consuming my life right now... 

 situation is going to be sorted out today... December 2009 - I am in the studio doing a voice over for an event - This guy walks in and im in the booth followed by a loud mouthed light skinned girl. When i finish my voice over I come out of the booth and sit down minding my own business. This big guy is sitting in a chair like hes the don carlion... of which hes not .. and hes not actually that big his jacket is lined and makes his torso look hugh but looking closer his legs are actually rather slim. 

The female he's with his rabbitting on 100 words to the second and is an associate of one of my people. She's going on and on and im starting to get a headache not to mention the fact her voice is very very high pitched. 

Im wearing a black dress with long sleeves and two gold buttons on either shoulder, tights, knee high flat leather boots, a leather jacket and a body warmer with a fur collar and my juicy day bag. Grandad hat at the ready. 

Theres a slight air of arrogance and we lock eyes and he says 'hi' with a big smile and i reply 'hi' and proceed to ask my friend what are we doing as I want to get home - Im in Deep east London, its 8.30pm and I want to get back to West London... Got things to do !!!

The guy who runs the studio - moody miserable old shit says to me 'Lu, got some more work for you to do if you want it ... its paying'. My ears prick up and I think Ok now were talking the same language. 'Can I have your number please'....without giving it a 2nd thought im on it. I am quick to real off my mobile number and the studio manager pockets it. I didnt notice he slyly gate the guy in the black padded jacket with the big smile and skinny legs a quick glance. Wish I had. 

Me D and C left the studio and jumped into C's car... enroute home. 

'Booyyyy that girl can chatttt'.....said D.. C replies 'She was on me in Napa bruvvvv but I aired that, was too easy and shes not even all that...not my cup of tea fam .... her voice is jarring'...I remained silent ... gathering my thoughts as to what I was going to cook for dinner when I got home and if i needed to pick up and bits and pieces. It was December remember ... freezziinnggggg...didnt want to leave my house after getting in. Plan of action was ...Dinner on, quick tidy up, eat, bath, laptop on, then bed. 

Was living in West London, a lovely ground floor flat with garden, needed a bit of TLC but im that hands on kinda girl just had to get the time to do it. Dean would probably be at home pffttt....he was always there. He was my boyfriend at the time, my heart wasnt in it. He knew it, I knew it and I told him. 'Just give it time babe, I dont want another girlfriend after you'. WOW Thats a bit too much for me right now. Dean liked being around me because I wasnt clingy, I was a challenge, independent but homely type. Looking back on it if he was a bit more confident it may (may) have worked. 

'So you want to do some voice over work Lu - ....you know who that was in the chair dont you'....said D to me.

I reply ..'Never seen him before in my life... had a slight arrogance about him and that chick - wow she was moter mouth 2009 - was happy to see you C...Voice overs - yeah well see.'

Little did I know this was the beginning for a long, intense, rollercoaster ride for me.

Get it right

Facts and myths about men are alll over the place... But what about putting men straight about a few of our ',yths'...


Why do we love to shop....... A guy told me its because its the only place in the world we actually feel we have control in... So what about the kitchen...? He didnt even know where the bowls were kept!


Women can't keep secrets. They eat away at them from the inside. And they don't view it as being untrustworthy, providing they only tell two or three people. - Are you guilty of that.... i recently dated a guy for quite a while and found everything I told a specific 'friend of mine' it would always end up coming back ... it got soo obvious I started feeding her with bullshit and it became a game... Be careful of women like me ladies ... The joke could all be on you 


Women can't refuse to answer a ringing phone, no matter what she's doing - is ringing why not answer it!!! Where as men will hear the phone ring, take it out of his pocket, look at whos calling, smirk, and put it back in his pocket still ringing..??


Women think all beer is the same - how different can it get....


After a woman showers, the bathroom will smell like a tropical rain forest. - is there anything wrong with that!!! NO

PFFTTTTTT

IRONIK.....

Has anyone ever seen him without glasses on????????????

I think its time to go away now!!! 

TINY TEMPAH ANNYYYDDAAYYYYY 


http://soundcloud.com/magnetic-man/perfect-stranger-feat-katy-b-benga-remix

Lulu OVER N OUT !!! 

LADY GAGA ...Wears Meat - NOW CHANTING GO HOME GO HOME GO HOME !!! OOOOKKKK

Lady Gaga ... protested against the Military who wish to throw out homophobic members of the army.


Lady Gaga urged U.S. officials to throw homophobic soldiers out of the military as she took a stand against the controversial 'Don't ask, don't tell' policy at a protest rally Monday 20th Sept 2010.


She expressed her opinion on the 'unspoken rule' banning homosexual people from revealing their sexuality, rumour has it she also brought homosexual member of the military with her on her tours.
She went as far during her speech to suggest a new policy be implemented: 'kick homophobic soldiers out of the military'!!! Cheeky Cow.. next shell be telling them how to do their jobs!!!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MoqOvFJ5-0c

What makes you tick

What makes us Happy?   What makes you happy.

Happiness is a state of mind or feeling characterized by contentment, love, satisfaction, pleasure, or joy.

Gucci, Prada, Manlolo or Loubiton.... Makes me Happy... The latest Fragrance ... a new pair of boots, a new handbag ...

* Shoping *...Tails of a shopaholic.. today !!!

Three times a month at least... You may thing .....'thats nothing girl .. im 3 times a week'...

 Maybe but i live my life... not yours !!!

Is it an addiction ... is it something that fills a void .. where did this desire for new things come from .. Within - an inbuilt requirement ... Like today ... finish a HARD day at work .. very productive .. i was on a roll.. Non-stop .. but Lulu strolls into Selfridges  - to the NEW shop department .. and HAS to buy a new pair of pumps .. despite them not having the size 4s in the pumps. I didnt NEED them.. they werent even the ones i wanted initially but I leave the store ... and come back justifying my actions in the mirror back in the selfridges ... I buy them... !!!

Is that a weakness.. Or something that is just natural to women!!!

Payday on Friday ... 'hand over eye' blackberry smiley messanger face